Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If you mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.(taken from the love dare book)
This is one that we had to stop discussing. We were getting in a heated argument that went something like this: "I do NOT do that when we argue!" And "I only go that far when we argue because YOU do this!"
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This is one that we had to stop discussing. We were getting in a heated argument that went something like this: "I do NOT do that when we argue!" And "I only go that far when we argue because YOU do this!"
ReplyDeleteYep, what a healthy marriage! :)